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The reason I ask is because I have always been told different things. I have also been told different theories as to monogamy, and how it’s unnatural. Am I the only person who thinks that’s bullshit? Yeah, I get it. It’s how we were created. Cavemen ended up sticking it to all of the ladies to make lots of babies. But love isn’t that. I think love is when you don’t want anybody else. Would do anything in the world to make that person happy. Love is being willing to put your life on the line for another person because you think they are that worth it. If you have a wandering eye, you ARE NOT, I repeat are not in love.

Societies standards these days objectify females and make them out to be women who sleep with men for lavish trips, etc or just downright sluts. NEWSFLASH: that is not a woman. That is a girl. Take care of yourself before anybody else and NEVER let a man pay your way. Always have your own back. Women work hard, work more, do anything in their power to make sure #1 is taken care of first, and don’t have time to deal with how you can enhance their life with your jet, or the wad of cash in your pocket. Women don’t care because they don’t need you. They know their worth.

I want my door opened for our first date. I want to be picked up. I want you to pick up the tab (don’t take that wrong, I will always offer) because it’s the thing your mothers should have taught you to do. No, I’m not going to kiss you or sleep with you on the first date. No, if I meet you in a bar I’m not going to give you the time of day because we ALL know what you’re most likely there for. No, I’m not going to join a site like tinder that objectifies women to the extreme. I believe there is still chivalry, you’re just dating assholes. That’s the difference between a girl and a woman. Girls play games and make men crazy. Women demand respect. I would choose love over money any day. Would you?

Good Vibes Only,

XO Brandi